Fathers urged to keep fighting flawed legal system | Bemidji Pioneer | Bemidji, Minnesota

Fathers urged to keep fighting flawed legal system | Bemidji Pioneer | Bemidji, Minnesota

Fathers urged to keep fighting flawed legal system

I would like to send a message to all unwed fathers out there fighting for rights to your children. You are not alone. I think that so many fathers get a bad stereotype from the few who have done wrong. There are many fathers out there who want to see, hold, love and watch their children grow and are not allowed to.

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Fathers Dignity is under heavy attack in the United States

Blinded, or heavily concerned about the destructive effects of fatherlessness in the United States; President Barack H Obama – perhaps because of misinformation or his ignorance on this matter – is taking a very dangerous stand against U.S. Fathers. He is using the same old fearful speech that only alienates American Fathers and; by the same token, he is casting a shadow of bad reputation on his own dad. However, as the President of the United States, a legislator and an intelligent man; today, he also holds the key to destroy institutionalized American fatherlessness forever in his country – if he wants. 

Consequently, it becomes more urgent that all concerned families and fatherhood organizations; and all oppressed fathers to keep on the light, and to spread the truth about fatherhood.

Here is an accurate opinion on “restoring fatherhood dignity” by Leon R. Koziol posted on June 21, 2009 at The Utica Observer-Dispath (UticaOD.com) of GateHouse Media, Inc., UTICA NY United States.

Opinion: "Father's Day 2009: Reform can help restore dignity to fatherhood". Click here to read it. 

Father's Day 2009: Reform can help restore dignity to fatherhood - Utica, NY - The Observer-Dispatch

On June 24th, 2009, I wrote and sent an "Open Letter to President Barack H Obama" and to several fathers and families advocacy organizations to express my concerns and to urge him to take a different stand in respect of fatherhood. Click here to read or to download a copy. 

In our community of nations, we have learned the hard way that when one nation falls, we all suffer. Incidentally, when one nation rises up, we all benefit.

Fathers’ confidence is a proven good investment in their children and in the future of nations. Political leaders must abide by that principle.

What do you think?

The Price of Children

In high school, one of my favorite books was “Le Prix de l'excellence” - In Search of Excellence, by Thomas Peters and Robert Waterman. The book came back to my conscious mind while I was watching “Quantum of Solace” – which literally would translate to ‘price of peace’. The movie and the book may not have anything to do with each other, but, my intellect associated them and I conclude that “There is a price to pay for everything”. More you value something, more it will cost you: “The price must be paid”.

When a parent says “I love my children very much”, the obvious question is “How much are you willing to pay to protect them?” Like peace, children have a price too. Obviously, many will quickly respond that children are priceless. That’s what I thought too – until recently. This answer is only emotional and; - forgive me please – only mental laziness dictates that. The reality is that children have a price: it’s the price that a parent is willing to pay to protect them from their enemies. “The price must be paid”.

Let’s say that you are a father and you love your kids very much. To a father’s eyes, his children are “priceless” - that is every father loves his children very much. I do not doubt that is true for every father I know – even those fathers that are kept away from their children by a US judge’s court order. A father would work hard to raise his children and see them prosper spiritually and materially and even better than he does. The children love, respect and obey him. You would think that’s it! Right? Well, that would be correct until jealousy and envy – personalized in real people around us – reveal themselves. Most people tend to use these two words interchangeably, but I recently learned the difference.

Jealousy is ... My thoughts continue here.

PSSM/C: the PSSM Crisis that is crippling the US

PSSM/C: the PSSM Crisis that is crippling the US
The title is rather shocking, I admit. You may feel offended by my choice of words, but no matter who you are if you bear with me you will understand that the 'single mother in the US' often enters into a vicious circle of self-destruction and she quickly finds herself betrayed, alone and depressed at the terrible cost of her own children – and as I will demonstrate later - at the terrible price for the country that is going backwards since the last two years. The pattern of self-destruction of the US single mother in so simple and easy to understand that if you read further and patiently, you will quickly realize that I have a point. The purpose of my research and writing is not a destructive criticism of any member of the family or our society, but rather to help everyone who is willing to read to recognize where they fit and hopefully to help to break from this vicious circle for the well being of the single mother herself and the protection of the most vulnerable members of our society (the innocent children) and for the better of our society and our world.

I hope my contribution is valuable. You can add to it with your honest and respectful comments which I welcome and value very much. There are numerous researches done on the subject. I will link to those that I have found worthy. The uniqueness of my contribution - I hope - can be found in my honesty and my integrity to report the truth as it is.

What is the truth you may ask?
The truth is what the reality is. This answer may be too simple for you. But anything else would be too confusing to the simple mind. But how do you recognize the truth? One characteristic of the truth - that I have personally found - is that the truth often hurts. That is one reason that you may soon find that my reasoning here will hurt your feelings at first until you think again and again and come back to read again. A second characteristic of the truth is that it survives the test of time, location and space. What I have observed here in the US about the single mother crisis will have the same results anywhere in time and space when the same conditions are met. Finally, the truth heals wounded souls and empowers the healthy ones. So, so far you should not have any problem to continue with me because I can guaranty you that you have nothing to loose but only to gain.

No. I am not another Dr. Phil or another Oprah. They (1) always find someone else to blame, a scapegoat to bash and (2) of course a victim to seduce, to praise and (3) to abuse for their own personal or corporate popularity and fame. That is why they get paid so much to air their show. If you take their show out of the context of reality TV, they would each have to look for another job. In several countries in the world, their show would not even receive authorization to air. The truth should be able stand the test of time and space.

I am not trying to offer any advice but to help my readers to recognize the self-destructive patterns of the single mother in the US and its devastating consequences to the innocent children and to the degradation of our society. As I hope to demonstrate later, if you apply the same conditions in any country in the world you will get the same results (test of space).

I am not looking for popularity or fame because most everything that I will say or write here has already been said by someone else. I will only repeat or present the truth in a different order or manner. If I was looking for popularity or fame, I would choose a more seductive language to entice and to please my readers. I have other interests in life where I consider myself successful and admired already.

Early recognition and breaking up of this vicious circle of the US single mother crisis is my only hope and purpose. . May God inspire me in this endeavor.

DEFINITIONS: The single mother – the mother is not single because often she has one or several boyfriends or other male companion friends with privileges. The single mother is single because she is all the children get - because the children father has been pushed and kept away. For sake of clarity, I will make a clear distinction between the godly mother (a.k.a. a faithful wife), the unmarried mother, the widow mother and the single mother who is the main subject of my research and this writing.


THE VICIOUS CIRCLE OF SELF-DESTRUCTION OF THE SINGLE MOTHER

1. Desire, greed – motivation: control, confiscatory child support, empty promised of us welfare at tax payers money, alimonies…
2. Design: 209A, Allegations of child abuse, divorce court, etc … false allegations of domestic violence.
3. Deception: child rebellions, child abuse, Abusive behaviors (sex, alcohol, shopping, partying…,) insufficient child support, low income, isolation, destructive behaviors, substance abuse, …..
4. Death: suicide, cancer illness, …

The widow mother -

The godly mother –

The “greedy single mother” or GSM – with greed, hate and revenge often against the father of her children. Seek Family court favor to screw up father of her children and enter the vicious circle of self-destruction at the cost of the children. Duped. Abused by everyone else. Betrayed by many. Every other boyfriend stops saying that you are ‘the best mom’ shortly after sex. Your boyfriends love you very much and love your children, but they would not ask you for marriage because they know that you suck.

Victory or Miracle: Dad (Jason Wilkins) and daughter (Madalyn) together

Belleville/MANSFEILD, Ohio, USA - Victory or Miracle: Dad (Jason Wilkins) and daughter (Madalyn) together

Good news arrives today when I receive the story of dad Jason Wilkins and her little daughter Madalyn Grace. God is great and a father’s heart has no equal. The story of innocent Madalyn Grace has been reported by several media outlets, but here are a few links to the news:

1. http://www.wmfd.tv/newsboard/single.asp?Story=34103
2. http://media.wmfd.com/news/121208momcharg.wmv
3. http://mensnewsdaily.com/glennsacks/2009/01/09/a-small-and-lucky-victory/
4. http://glennsacks.com/blog/index.php?tag=tabitha-potter
5. http://gaspardlafalaisejr.blogspot.com/2009/01/victory-or-miracle-dad-jason-wilkins.html

In essence and according to the news reporters, Mrs. Tabitha L. Potter – of Bellville, Ohio USA, 27 year-old, married - met with Jason Wilkins (31) in a bar and had “extramarital affairs” according to one source. The mother obviously got pregnant and gave birth in June 2008, then abandoned the child “less than one day after birth”. When the father, Jason learned about the misfortune of his daughter, he (courageously and responsibly, I might say) sought and obtained custody of her little girl. As Robert Franklin (GlennSacks.com) carefully puts it: “come January 12, Jason Wilkins (dad) and Madalyn Grace will begin their life together. And that's a victory - a big one - for them both.” It takes character and courage for a dad to earn a victory like that. Good job Jason! Way to go! May God bless you in your mission and your daughter always!

Is this a VICTORY? a MIRACLE? Or what?
Where is the finger of God in this event?

It is not too difficult to find the answer. I think I find it first in Isaiah 49:15 where God says "Can a mother forget the baby at her breast and have no compassion on the child she has borne? Though she may forget, I will not forget you!" And secondly, I find the same answer in Luke 21:16-18 "You will be betrayed even by parents, ... and they will put some of you to death. But not a hair of your head will perish."

Jason, (if I may) you must realize that God entrusted you with a noble lifelong mission that is found in the duties for the father that are (1) provision, (2) protection and (3) instructions. Your character, your courage and your determinations to claim your precious little daughter and stand up for her in these difficult circumstances demonstrate that you are the man fit for the job. But, you will need divine protection to give to your daughter the best of the dad that you are. We, all experienced fathers already know that … But, many of us despite many years of experience are struggling to carry on. One reason of our struggle - beside this plaguing US economy - is because of the “greedy single mother” who betrays us and our children by handing us over to Family Court Judges at the terrible cost of our children. However, God did not give anyone of us no more than what we can bear. After all, that is why we are made man before we become a father: “To stand”. “Having done all, to stand”.

Another sad story about raging depressed abusive violent single mothers …

“A Single mother who killed her 10-year-old son admits long-term abuse" by NYDailyNews.com 12/29/2008 Staten Island, NY, USA

This is one sad story after another and this has already reached outraging proportion in the United States. The judges and the mothers are all guilty for victimizing our children. Family court officers as well as lawyers are guilty of complicity or cowardliness. The politicians are guilty of silence. The US Government (governors included) is guilty for deliberately ignoring it. The media when reporting such tragedies does a mediocre job by reporting only a half-true ignoring that such tragedies usually happen because the father have been pushed and kept away from their children.
Their strategy is simple and their deceptive schemes have been played over and over. The same pattern repeats over and over for too many years ending with children being raised in public welfare, in poverty, in misery by single mothers who are desperately struggling with mental issues or all sorts of addictions (sex, alcohol, drugs, etc ...) and other destructive behaviors to keep the children as far as possible from their loving fathers. Meanwhile, the father often is capable and is willing to provide better standards of living to the children. He is often kept far away by the US justice system with the complicity of the mother.

The offenders pretend to be offended to seek attention and compassion that otherwise they would not get. The victimizers “viciously attack all while wailing that they are the true victims” when in reality they make the children and the fathers the genuine victims. Ann Coulter explained it better in her latest book titled GUILTY: Liberal “Victims” and Their Assault on [US] America. As she carefully points it out "The most worship figure in modern [US] America is the "single mother". Malicious politicians come to adore her to score at the cost of our children. [Learn more at my blog http://gaspardlafalaisejr.blogspot.com/]. This sad tragedy - of another mother abusing to death her 10-year-old son (Jaquan Porter) for so long while “viciously” keeping him away from his now “grieving” and loving dad (Mr. Charles Porter) with the complicity of a family court judge I am sure - is one of two many. [NYDailyNews.com 12/29/2008]

The United States is criticizing other civilizations for their violence toward women while - here in the US - women and the US justice system are aggressively destroying fathers and men in public courtrooms at the terrible cost of our children well-being. As the matter of fact, female violence against men is routinely portrayed as appropriate in the US popular culture. “You hypocrite! First remove the beam from your own eye, and then you will see clearly enough to remove the speck from [other countries]'s eye." Matthew 7:5

SEAN DELEVAN – and the many other fathers and godly mothers who also know much about this conspiracy to keep fathers away so the system can destroy our children – KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK! Expose them! Because “everything exposed by the light becomes visible, for it is light that makes everything visible.”

Only God Himself can put a stop to this wickedness because His Hand is already stretched in judgment: “Those who enact unjust policies are as good as dead, those who are always instituting unfair regulations, to keep the fathers from getting fair treatment, and to deprive the oppressed among my people of justice, so they can steal and loot what belongs to the fatherless children”. Isaiah 10, emphasis added.

Jesus Christ Himself already stands in defense of the innocent children - like Jaquan Porter: “If anyone causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for her to have a huge millstone hung around her neck and to be drowned in the open sea”. Matthew 18:6, emphasis added.

Married Fathers, Pray daily for the protection of your children
because divorced Fathers were once married also!

FATHERS,
LET’S PRAY FOR THE PROTECTION OF OUR CHILDREN
AND FOR A SPEEDY HEARING AT THE COURT OF FINAL APPEAL.

Book That I Am Reading Now ...

GUILTY: Liberal "Victims" and Their Assault on America by Ann Coulter - Available at 'Barnes & Noble' [ http://search.barnesandnoble.com/GUILTY/Ann-Coulter/e/9780307353467 ]

Extract from the book " COVER/inset/back ["The offenders are offended!: One essential and recurring truth about self-righteous liberals, says Coulter, is that "they viciously attack all while wailing that they are the true victims." With Guilty - a mordantly witty and shockingly specific catalog of offenses that liberals would rather we ignore and forget - Ann Coulter presents exhibits A through Z.] from COVER/inset/back.

Even the grifters know that to be embraced by the cool people in America, you must claim to be a victim, preferably abused by religious fundamentalists. from pp7.

["In a related phenomemon, various half-black celebrities insist on representing themselves simply as "black" - the better to race-bait their way to success. Actress Halle Barry, singer Alicia Keys, and matinee idol Barack Obama were all abandoned by their black fathers and raised by their white mothers. But instead of seeing themselves as half-white, they prefer to see the glass as half-black. They all choose to identify with the fathers who ditched them, while insulting the women who struggled to raise them." from pp7.

CH2 VICTIM OF A CRIME? THANK A SINGLE MOTHER "The most worship figure in modern America is the "single mother". pp33.

COVER/inset/front ["Single mothers: Getting pregnant isn't like catching the flu. There are volitional acts involved - someone else explain it to Dennis Kucinich. By this purposeful act, single mothers cause irreparable harm to other beings - their own children - as countless studies on the subject make clear"].

Buy and read it ... I am enjoying it so far ... will tell you more later ... CHEERS!!!

RELATED & FUTHER READINGS:

[Single Mothers And Welfare, by Jim Blair]

http://www.bigissueground.com/politics/blair-singlemotherwelfare.shtml very good ...

[I'm Watching You Dad]

http://www.godtube.com/view_video.php?viewkey=5486ae62fd502645138e

[Introducing Jesus - By Steve Harvey]

http://www.godtube.com/view_video.php?viewkey=61b7aff9d21f23ebcbfe

Peace & Prosperity for the New Year!

A bientot!